HOW TO FULFILL YOUR DESTINY

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Wherever you are, Whatever you may be one thing is common to us all. We all have a destiny to fulfill in life. But when destiny is not realized it cant be fulfilled, until your eyes are open to your potentials you cant give your destiny an expression, realizing your destiny is the first thing that will push you to fulfilling it. Until you see what you can become you will busy running after what you cant become.

Many wake up from day to day without a glimpse of what they will become in life and for this reason they become something far beyond their potentials allowing the world around them to control their life for them.

What you see others doing or what they have done before you is not necessarily or must be your destiny, your destiny may be of new discovery of a potential hidden in you. Only few people work towards fulfilling their dreams and visions because of where they find themselves.

Your destiny can only be fulfilled when you realized it, according to Mahatma Gandhi he said “when the direction is wrong the speed is irrelevant”. Without realizing your destiny you will just be working hard with no result, this is the problem of many youths today they were been forced by their parents to pursue their parents dreams for them and they end failing, many parents wants their kids to become lawyer, doctor, engineer and they force it on them but the kids find it difficult to make it because it not their destiny, many youths will put in their best efforts in becoming what their parents wants but at end they fail.
Your destiny is what you control by yourself not what you allow your parent, friends, environment, situation and mistakes,challenges or failure controls for you.My own definition of destiny is very simple- Destiny in my own understanding is an art work that cannot draw itself without an Artist.

Your destiny will only so forth the way you handle it. if an artist handle his paintings and drawings very well people will appreciate and if not handle well people will see him as an amateur, the same thing is applicable to every destiny if you handle it well you will fulfill it but if not handle properly you fail. An artwork design must have it source may be from the mind a picture you don’t see with your eyes or from a inspiration you get from things you see or hear.

Your destiny as well can have it source from these two things either from the pictures you have in mind which are dreams, visions and goal or through what you see around you.
DESTINY are not fate,kismet as people do think but i will like to tell you here that DESTINY
is a design you gave your life to look like what people say didn’t matter what matters is what you say about yourself and believe. DESTINY is architecture work that you handle as an architect in other word you are the architect of your life. But in fulfilling your Destiny these five important things are very important and i will like to talk about them here.
> REALIZE YOUR DESTINY
> KNOW THE PRINCIPLES OF DESTINY
> CONNECT TIME WITH YOUR DESTINY
> AVOID DESTINY DESTROYERS
> ACTIVATE THE POWER OF YOUR DESTINY

December 18, 2012 @ 6:59 pm »

Until your eyes are open to the reality of the potentials you possess, your destiny may never show up. Too often people are living day to day waking up from Monday to Sunday with no understanding of what life means as a result of this they allow the world around them to tell them who they are and how they should live becoming something that is far beneath their potential. One of the common causes of failure is the habit of not knowing what someone possess, when to use it and how to use it. Before destiny can be realized in any man’s life he is sure to meet with different temporary defeat, failure and perhaps some little success which makes many to settle on their way of fulfillment before reaching it thinking that what they have is enough already.
When defeat overcomes many, they look for for the easiest and logical way of the defeat which is to quit- that is exactly what majority of men do. When many quit because of defeat they think it is their destiny to quit that they cant make it in life, when many find themselves in terrible situation they adapt to it thinking that it is their destiny to live in such terrible situation such as a life of pain, poverty, shame, low class, and even at times as slaves because of defeat that comes their way when they want to arise.
More than ninety percent of youths stop because people say no to their visions and dreams they give chance to their environment, friend, country, leaders and families to shape and organize their life and destinies for them without knowing what their destiny is. Many youths for over centuries have been living their live out and completely off their destinies because their thoughts habits have been steeped in poverty, want, misery, failure, shame, and defeat.
This was written for you to know the the easiest and logical way to realize your destiny, if you dont know what your destiny is you cant fulfill it. Success comes to those who becomes success conscious. Failure comes to those who indifferently allow themselves to become failure conscious. You must be destiny conscious for you to fulfill it. To realize your destiny you must know and apply these follow things:-
> NEVER SETTLE FOR A MISTAKEN FOR A MISTAKEN IDENTITY
“If settle down for another man’s lifestyle or dreams you will fulfill another man’s dream.”
The object of writing this post is to help all who seek to know what their destiny is to realize it. What people around you becomes or do is not your destiny, before you can realize your destiny you must have this in mind, never settle for what you see people do or what they call you if is not your destiny. Many were called failure in the past, they accept it and they fail indifferently many were called failure in the past they didnt take it and they prove to thier own world they are success. people like Thomas edison,Abraham Lincoln, Henry Ford and many more prove to thier that they can make it and they make it which made their stories success stories everyone wants to hear and talk about.
Many settle for a mistaken identity because of their background, enviroment, failure, defeat, laziness and fear.
>SELF DISCOVERY
Looking at yourself very well is the second thing you need to do in realizing your destiny, look at yourself very well there is something in you that the the worl is waiting for, something strange and powerful that the world is waiting for and that the world needs, but you have to look deep into yourself before you can see it. Potentials are hidden to people that have it but refused to search for it. No one is impotent you have something in you but if you dont sarch for it you may not find it. SEARCH FOR IT BECAUSE IT IS IN YOU.
>SEE WHAT GRIEFS OR MAKES YOU CRY IN  YOUR AND OTHER PEOPLE,S LIFE
You may be a solution to people’s problem, your destiny may be to find solution to the problem of your world, the great past inventors are solutions to the problems of their own time. they solve problem of communications, electricity, transport and so on.look round you there must be something that makes you cry or things or situations that stand as problem for the people around you or you yourself stand up today and solve those problem may be that’s your destiny. People like Henry Ford solve the problem of buying car for average men in America, it griefs him that only the rich are buying flirt of cars while the average men cant have one, this push him to start his own car company and he start building and selling cars to the average men of his own time.
>FIND WHAT IS ABNORMAL IN WHAT THE WORLD SEE NORMAL
This is where i will be concluing on this topic in realizing your destiny you will have to look around you very well to see what is not  normal in what people are doing every dy aroun you. Issac Newton see this and prove to his world that is not normal for things to fall when thrown up Issac searched for the cause of this and solve the problem through his law of gravity. You destiny is around you or let me say is in you search for it and fulfill it.